Lets Keep it Simple

Since all of my fellow UH bloggers have posted on the topic of men vs women or rather the battle of the ages, I figured I should grace our page with some thoughts of my own. I would have to agree with both Coco and Aaron not saying either is completely correct, Id rather stick in the gray area. It may be more fun to pretend you don’t understand us guys, just remember your life will remain complicated the more you keep your heads stuck in the clouds.

• 1. I would have to agree with Aaron when he says there is no need for a female to attempt to control her man. First of all this takes up way too much energy from our part ladies and it verges on the crazy girlfriend stereotype. Although not all women take on this paranoid role in the relationship there are many that sadly do. But lets not forget how overprotective men can be as well. I’m pretty sure we’ve all heard stories from friends telling us how jealous their partners are that they cant throw on a low cut shirt without having an argument. When it comes to the cheating, lets keep it simple; if you think your significant other is up to no good then some things need to be reconsidered. A relationship is worth nothing without trust, point blank.
  


• 2. Men aren’t known for being the best of listeners lets face it, our dogs probably pay more attention to our stories. This doesn’t mean you guys shouldn’t try to keep up with our days. Yes us woman can have a lot to say, sometimes even about the most insignificant of topics but it doesn’t mean its not important. This is our way of becoming closer to you and turning a boyfriend into a best friend (it doesn’t mean we just love to bore you to death). So lets try to compromise, guys try to keep a bit and ladies give them that chance to catch up.


• 3. Sex. The topic alone can either make you shrug in your seat or make your eyes wide with excitement. Either way, woman or man, everyone becomes interested. Females must remember that although you carry the power to give your man sex if and when you choose, try to not abuse this power. Men have a short attention span as it is and teasing can only be so fulfilling for so long. And guys you cant expect sex when you aren’t doing much of anything in other parts of the relationship. Your girl wants to give you the world but you have to give her something in return. So ladies try to get in touch with your sexual side sometimes because lets face it, you will enjoy it as much as he will. The everyday woman has a sexy side so let it out and please him. Well only if he is pleasing you that is.


• 4. Okay this one is simpler. Guys should be allowed to enjoy their sports from time to time. As Aaron said a girl can either join her man or not. Give your guys their space to play with the boys because you know if hes a keeper he’ll always come back to play with you later. If you take time to watch the game with him he’ll know your down for anything and that girlfriend is always the best one to be around.
  
  
• 5. Anyone who knows me knows that I love laughing. I could do it for a living if I had the choice but the thing is there is a time and place for everything. Women shouldn’t take themselves too serious because its pointless to walk around wasting the day being mad at a guy who is most likely in the best of moods. This goes for anything come to think of it. Why should you stay at home crying when your guy is probably out having drinks or playing hoops with the boys. Don’t waste time being angry because no matter how bad your guy has messed up, he isn’t using his energy on you. And you guys have to realize that not every situation can be brushed off, there are times when you should address the issue and not just shrug and walk out the door. That helps absolutely nothing.
  

Yes Coco Elle in the end ALL men are idiots. We cant live with them and we cant live without them….they don’t have to know that of course. Put on the game face and keep it simple because the games can wear you out.

LL....